feeling like a parent

i feel like such a parent now. my mom has given up on my siblings' way of life and is just supporting them with whatever they do. i feel that right now it is mine and my elder sister's burden to kick my siblings' asses to set them straight.

my brother refuses to work. he's spent weeks job hunting only to quit after the first day of training because he doesn't like the people there and that the people there are constantly talking. i'd like to give him a whack on the head.

my younger sister is too full of herself. she's a major flirt and she's a spoiled brat. my mom refuses to let her take the public transport system because of the way she moves and flirts with guys fearing that she'll get raped one of these days. i say let her dress more conservatively and let her commute.

i don't know why my mom is so scared of letting them grow up. they're not babies anymore. my mom is so afraid of letting them go the way they let me go. when my elder sister got married, they were forced to let her go, but they still baby her every now and then. i'm the most independent so far, but i still rely on them for so many things. i don't pay rent, i don't pay for utilities or food.

i don't know what to do anymore. if it were up to me, i'd tell my sister to just get married and get out of the house, that way i'll get my own room and she'll be out of our life. i'd also tell my brother to get a job and stick with it to get exposed to what real life is.