i had a deep conversation wtih my friend choi last night. he pointed out that i enjoy the attention i'm getting and that i am enjoying my ego-tripping. I am enjoying, but i only want to do that when i'm sure that i'm not hurting anyone. choi brought my attention to someone who may have not gotten the point before and i've e-mailed that person to make sure that the point was delivered.

i also e-mailed someone i fought with so that my point will be better understood.

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i found this on a friendster bulletin... there may be some grammatical errors, but i'm posting it verbatim...it's quite funny and it's quite true...

TOP TEN REASONS FOR GUYS AND GIRLS TO HAVE A GAY BEST FRIEND

**Girls**
1. You can shop all day long and you won't hear any complain that you usually get from your boyfriend.
2. When your buying clothes, you dont have to rely on your boyfriend's lame ass "that looks good on you" comment when it really doesn't.
3. You don't need to worry about color combination for the rest of your life.
4. You can actually have a conversation about Hollywood celebrities and forget about sports!
5. Finally...someone who you can watch a chick flick with! It does suck when you're the only one
saying "awww" when watching "Sleepless In Seattle".
6. You get that intimate talk with boys that you don't usually get from a "straight" one. "Like oh my
god, you are so right sister!"
7. Hello!...Hair care products?
8.You can talk about his male anatomy and it wouldn't bother him.
9. He'll tell you which guy is cute and which one is not...so you'll never end up with the ugly one.
10. You can always assure that he'll never steal your boyfriend! (i.e. assuming your boyfriend is
straight.)

**Guys**
1. Having problems with tying those neckties...I thought so.
2. Your girlfriend said your not intimate enough and you need to open up? This might be your
solution!
3. Fashion problems? Clothes don't match? just can't get the right item?...then he's your man!
4. Absolutely hate shopping? They'll glad to do it for you! Now you can actually buy an anniversary
gift your girlfriend will love!
5. Now you can actually fix up a dinner for your girlfriend and not over cook the pasta!
6. Stuck in the sports world? Need celeb info? Now you'll actually know who's JLo's new husband
and your chick will be happy that you know Bennifer is so yesterday!
7. Need dates...just ask him...he can refer you to up to 200 single chicks...he has no use of them
anyways!
8. They hang out with the hottest chicks ever! Did I make myself clear enough!
9. The easiest way to a girl's heart is not in her stomach...it's through her gay best friend!
10. You can assure that he'll never steal your girlfriend! (i.e. assuming he's really gay like what
he said he is...)