Read my good friend Edil's blog... about exes and letting go.... he was very insightful... here's what he wrote:

"Letting go doesn't mean they have to forget each other. For every person that we love, we hold a special place in our hearts for that person. And no one else can take his or her place. That is when our capacity to love grows. When a relationship ends and a new one begins, the love that we shared with the previous person transforms into a different kind of emotion, and it will remain there [whether it becomes close friendship or hatred will depend on how we end our previous relationships]. Then the heart carves out a new niche for the new love. At least that is what I believe in.

I for one admit that I still hold a place in my heart for my ex, despite the things that happened between us, despite my ex's insistence not to apologize, despite my ex's denial about doing nothing wrong. That place, however is no longer filled with love. I have forgiven, but I will always remember."

I think it's quite true... I do wish that my exes apologize for what they did... for that matter, ex friends, too. Apologize for what they did wrong. It would make me feel better if and when they realize what they did and apologize for it... but I'm not really holding my breath.

For now.... blah blah blah.... life goes on.